Choose your stones
The world of stones and lithotherapy is so fascinating that when you start to put your nose in it, you find it hard to get out of it, and the more you deal with stones, the more you want to get them. The multitude of stones available in the world is an inconsiderable wealth, but, let's face it, it doesn't make it easy to make a choice. Indeed, after reading a few articles on the benefits of stones, many people want to buy their first stones but contact us asking "Which stone is right for me? Should one choose the classic Amethyst, Rock Crystal and Tiger Eye? How do I know if this stone is really ideal for my needs? In short: Which stone to choose?
As often, there is not only one answer. Indeed, lithotherapy is a holistic science, so there are different ways to choose your stones. To avoid you a panic attack in front of the catalog of your favorite stone store, we have prepared this practical article in which we detail 5 methods to choose your stones.
1. Choose my stones by intuition
There are things that cannot be explained. In lithotherapy, the power of the stones resonates in us in a spontaneous and natural way, so our attraction to certain stones often has no real explanation. Nevertheless, when we see it, look at it or touch it, there is a connection that is made: the stone awakens something in us. Have you ever experienced this sense of urgency to get something? This irrepressible desire to possess those objects that will do you good? Well, choosing a stone can be as simple and spontaneous as that. Let yourself be guided by your feelings, your feeling, your intuition.
Without knowing why, some stones will attract you. You are going to browse an online store and suddenly, your eyes will be focused on a jewel, the color of a stone or its shape. Intrigued, you will browse through the product sheet and discover a stone whose virtues resonate in you. This is completely normal. Even if you buy your gemstones online, getting to know a stone is to enter in vibration with its power. If this crystal can help you to improve an aspect of your life or your person, you will notice it.
The simplest method is therefore to let yourself be carried away by your feelings. Listen to yourself, but don't think too much, the mind is never a great help when it comes to finding answers to our deepest ills. See the feelings that each stone brings out in you: is it indifference, discomfort or on the contrary curiosity? Dig these tracks and be spontaneous, there is a good chance that the stones in question will be of great help to you on a daily basis.
2. Choose my stones by zodiac sign
Choosing your stones according to your zodiac sign is ideal for people who wish to offer stones in particular. It is also a good solution to make a choice if your intuition leads you to several stones, but you can't get them all.
Stones are linked to chakras, but also to astrological signs. Whether in Chinese, Indian or Western astrology, stones have always been linked, by their color or their virtues, to the symbols of the astrological signs. The stones being from the earth and the signs of the zodiac being determined according to the planets, all this makes a lot of sense.
Wearing a stone adapted to your zodiac sign will increase its benefits tenfold. To help you, here is a list of zodiac signs and their associated stones:
♒ Aquarius: Agate, Aquamarine, Chrysocolla, Fluorite, Leopard Jasper
♓ Fish: Aquamarine, Amethyst, Coral, Fluorite, Jade
♈ Aries: Amethyst, Citrine, Carnelian, Rock Crystal
♉ Taurus: Agate, Aventurine, Citrine, Coral, Lapis Lazuli
♊ Gemini: Moss Agate, Aquamarine, Amber, Chalcedony
♋ Cancer: Aventurine, Chalcedony, Coral, Carnelian, Jade
♌ Lion: Amber, Calcite, Citrine, Rock Crystal
♍ Virgo: Amber, Amethyst, Celestine, Citrine, Carnelian, Jasper
♎ Scales: Aquamarine, Chrysocolla, Jade, Jasper, Kunsite, Opal
♏ Scorpio: Agate, Amethyst, Carnelian, Garnet, Hematite
♐ Sagittarius: Amazonite, Amethyst, Aventurine, Chalcedony
♑ Capricorn: Chalcedony, Rock crystal, Cyanite, Jasper
3. To choose my stones according to their virtues and the evils to be cured
Want to lose weight? To attract abundance? To soothe your mind or your emotions? To help cure your digestion problems? If you know what you expect from stones, you can of course choose them according to their virtues. For example, many people wish to protect themselves from bad energies and therefore decide to get a protective stone.
It is important to know that several stones can have the same virtues. Thus, Labradorite and Celestine are two stones for the hypersensitive. Stones such as Carnelian, Hematite or Howlite give energy and determination. Onyx, Aventurine and Moonstone are anchoring stones that will help you reconnect to yourself, to your roots, to the Earth.
You will have understood it, to choose a stone thanks to its virtues, it will be necessary to make some research to be sure that the stone corresponds to what you are looking for. Consult our blog to learn more about the different stones we sell: we write very detailed articles on all the virtues and benefits of stones.
Here are some tracks according to the benefits of the stones:
• To treat muscular pains: Malachite, Amethyst
• Treat skin problems: Agate, Rose Quartz
• Better digestion : Sodalite, Aventurine
• Lose weight : Apatite
• Counter migraines: Amethyst, Labradorite, Lapis Lazuli
• Neutralize menstrual pain: Moonstone, Agate, Jasper
• Soothe stress: Amber, Amethyst, Howlite
• To make anxiety disappear: Tourmaline, Pink Quartz, Moonstone, Amethyst
• Regain of motivation: Carnelian, Garnet, Tiger Eye
• Regaining self-confidence: Amethyst, Celestine, Carnelian, Hematite, Labradorite
• To take root: Onyx, Black Agate, Hematite, Bull's eye, Carnelian
• Boost your creativity: Carnelian, Labradorite, Garnet
• Attract financial abundance: Citrine
• Create an environment conducive to concentration: Carnelian, Fluorite, Tourmaline
• To promote its mediumnity: Crystal of Rock, Amethyst, Eye of Hawk
4. Choose my stones according to their colors
If you are sensitive to the visual aspect of objects, you can also choose your stones according to colors. The colors of the stones also define their symbolism and this can help you to put your finger on the stone that will be the most beneficial for you. For example if you want a red stone, it can mean that you are a very dynamic person, in action or need to be motivated. You are looking to move forward and the vibratory level of the red stones resonates within you.
Choosing a stone by color allows you to make a bridge with your intuition. You choose a stone because its color attracts you. Trust this, by looking more closely at the properties of the stone, chances are you will say to yourself "this stone is made for me! "and you will be right.
• Green stones : Linked to nature, to plants, green stones evoke fertility, spontaneity, harmony, perpetual rebirth, hope.
• Red stones : Red is commonly the color of action, passion. Red stones are energizing stones, which give courage, audacity and willpower. Be careful however not to let reflection at the expense of action.
• Pink stones: Thanks to the red shaded with white, pink stones are soft stones. Stones of friendship and reasoned love, they are stones that bring tenderness, tranquility and romanticism.
• Blue stones: Blue stones are related to the sky and water. They are stones of intuition, spirituality, intense calm and inner peace. The different variants of blue bring other benefits. Thus, turquoise stones are stones of youth, creativity and communication. Dark blue stones are heavenly stones of deep harmony.
• White and transparent stones : White has always been the color of purity, innocence, peace. White stones bring knowledge, softness, compassion and peace. They are also highly spiritual stones.
• Black stones: Black is the color of mystery, but also of seriousness, solidity, stability. Black stones bring a deep anchoring and mystical and solemn energies.
• Purple stones : Coming from blue and red, violet is a magical color that brings wisdom and clarity of mind. Violet stones are also deeply spiritual and mysterious.
• Orange stones: Halfway between red and yellow, orange is a color of balance, joy, confidence and fun. Orange stones are stones of renewal and rebirth.
• Yellow stones: Yellow is the color of energy, creation, joy and happiness. Very positive, yellow stones bring fulfillment, dynamism, intelligence and abundance.
• Brown stones: Related to the Earth, brown stones are stones of stability, anchoring and stability.
• Silver and gold stones: These colors are related to prosperity, spiritual wealth, luxury, but also radiance and optimism.
• Grey stones: grey is a color of security, maturity, knowledge and responsibility.
5. Choose my stones according to their uses and shapes
Finally, the last method to choose your stones is quite pragmatic since it focuses on making a choice according to the use you wish to have of this stone. In lithotherapy, stones are used to work on individuals, but also on places and ambiences. The power of the stones acts on the energies that pass through us, whether they are inside or outside. Thus, wearing a stone jewel is perfect to work on one's own person. On the other hand, it is not enough to have a significant effect on a room in your home for example.
All the experts in lithotherapy will tell you: the more imposing and heavy (and of good quality) a stone is, the more powerful its effects are. In other words, you won't be able to drive the bad energies out of your living room by wearing a protective bracelet. You will need bigger stones.
If your wish is to work on you, the stones worn in jewelry are the best choice: you don't risk losing them and their benefits are immediate, because the stone is in contact with your skin. On the other hand, if you wish to protect your place of life or work or if you wish to make energetic care or to protect your whole family, you will have to get bigger stones such as pyramids or geodes. These shapes make it possible to arrange the stones on a shelf or in the four corners of a room to diffuse rather powerful energies.
Conclusion
Choosing a stone is usually done quite spontaneously. Let yourself be guided by your intuition and your needs. If you find it difficult to choose between several stones, rely on your little inner voice whispering the name of one of the stones. Close your eyes, take a breath and see which stone comes directly to your mind when you wonder which stone to choose.
If you are new to lithotherapy, you can also purchase a base stone set that includes the most common, powerful and used stones in lithotherapy.
